Most of the time men are the ones who have to initiate sex with their woman. The unfortunate thing is that if a man tries to initiate sex the wrong way then their woman will put a stop to sex before it even starts. If you find that you hear “I have a headache” more often than not, then may need to revamp your approach to getting her in the mood, because chances are you are turning her off instead of on.
Here are the top 10 ways to initiate sex with your woman, that will have her wanting more instead of instantly getting a headache.
1. Touch Her Appropriately
Do not walk up and start touching her boobs without focusing on other areas first. Her whole body should be your focus. If you are sitting on the couch with her than touch her legs or arms. If you are looking at her then touch her face. If you are sitting behind her then touch her everywhere!
Remember that a light caress is better than a hard poke when it comes to initiating sex. Caress her body with a light but firm touch. You want to say ‘I love you and your whole body’ instead of ‘Sex is really all I want!’.
2. Control The Atmosphere
Sometimes sex on the spur is fun, but most women like a little bit of an atmosphere around them to get in the mood. If you change the surroundings from regular day activity surroundings, and make them into something more romantic, then her brain will be drawn more to sex then what she has to clean around the house.
Change the sight, smell, or look of the room you want to have sex in. Try cooking her dinner and eating by candle light. Or have candles lit in the bedroom when you go to bed. Even roses on the bed will create an atmosphere of love.
3. Use a Board Game
There are many sexually orientated games out there! Most adult games require you to do something to your partner in order to move to advance in the game. Chances are you will not make it to the end of the game which means that both of you will win! Go to your nearest adult store and see what games are for you.
4. Make Her Feel Sexy
Women want to have sex when they feel good about themselves. If you can make her feel sexy then she will most likely want to show you how sexy she is! Tell her how great she looks in her clothes and keep it honest. If you are being sincere with her she will love it.
5. Make Her Feel Craved
Give her the look that tells her how hot she’s making you, or just outright tell her how she makes you hot. Make sure to mention exactly what is hot about her, and how much you crave it, and she will start to want to give the things you are craving to you.
6. Watch a Sexy Movie or TV Show
Sometimes porn works for this, but more often than not you should just keep it limited to an x-rated movie or show. The undertone of the program should be all about sex and should make her think about having sex with you.
Women get turned on when watching sex filled shows just like men do, and if you notice that she is starting to look like she’s ready to go then take the opportunity! Don’t let the moment pass you by because at the end of the show she may lose her ‘in the moment’ interest.
7. Use Her Favorite Move
There is one move that most women can’t resist. The problem is that all women are different which means their favorite move is different. It’s your job to figure out your woman’s favorite move. Never underestimate the power of one gesture that always gets her going. There’s a reason she likes it and chances are it won’t fade away any time soon.
She may always get turned on when you say a certain thing to her, or maybe it’s when you give her a certain look, or maybe it’s when you touch her a certain way. You just have to pay attention for the next few love-making sessions to see when her excitement goes through the roof.
8. Get Clean!
If you can coax her into the shower, jacuzzi, hot tub, bath, lake, or any other form of water, then you have a great setting for initiating sex. Water makes things slippery and enticing. Kissing is even sexier in water than out because drooling is non-existent!
9. Make it All About Her
Women have a lot expected out of them on a daily basis. Everyone seems to want something from them. Let her know that you just want to please her and expect nothing in return. This will take away the mentality that she has to give something to get something, and it will allow her to just enjoy the sexual encounter. You will be surprised at how often she thinks you expect her to do a lot of the work, and how often that turns her off.
10. Use Your Dirty Talk Correctly
If you walk up to her and whisper something in her ear that turns her off then you have just lost any chance at sex you may have had! You have to learn how to use your dirty talk to turn her on, and how it affects various points throughout sex.
The biggest thing to remember is that you want to keep the dirty talk on a lighter note in the beginning and work your way up to the outright raunchy lines. The more turned on she is, the more receptive she will be to dirty talk.
Dirty talk is really important in the bedroom. It can make or break your chances of having great sex.
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